While searching my files for a short piece to read at our writer’s club Christmas party this year I came across this story I wrote in 2009. A good reason to save my old files.
James Toboni’s old fishing lure given to his son, David Toboni.
A Christmas Guest
It’s a week before Christmas and our two boys are decorating the tree when I notice a fishing lure has mysteriously appeared on our coffee table. “”It’s made from a spoon of steel,” Dave says when I ask, “for catching big stripers. This one my father made. I found it in the garage in my old tackle box.”
Dave describes how his father, dead for many years now, liked to make his own lures. He’d buy a lure at the store that he liked and then copy it down at the steel shop, where he had been a stainless steelworker.
My youngest son, James, was named after him. Our sons had never known him, only knew that he had liked the outdoors and had died suddenly from a heart attack while deer hunting. There had been three children in all─ three children who would grow up missing their father.
I bring out a photo album and show the kids pictures. A young Grandpa dressed in khakis sitting on a rock wall, a bit of scenery behind him, one of him kneeling by an old camp tent, and one sitting on an old Chevy with his hunting rifle. I liked the photo dated October 1962 with all three young children and Dave’s mother, but my favorite is an old black and white close-up of his handsome face peering down at my Dave, his first-born son.
The boys wanted to know more about their grandfather so Dave shared a story. “My father liked to get up at 3 or 4 in the morning to go fishing, and he would invite me to go along. He’d set the alarm and tell me to be ready when it was time to go. That first morning when the alarm rang I was so tired I fell back asleep. When I finally woke up I found that he had gone fishing without me. That was how my father taught me the importance of being punctual. After that I didn’t miss any more fishing trips. I jumped right out of bed all set to go.”
Dave wipes the shiny surface of the fishing lure with a wet towel until it gleams. “Looks like a Christmas ornament,” he says.
“Yes, this is perfect,” I say, “to have him back again with us as a guest for Christmas.”
The End
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, 2025!
Sue Fredericksen
Lovely story, I know now how Dave comes by his love of the outdoors! His old friend Gordon used to hunt and fish with his father and brothers also. They supplied thier family with alot of food that way back in North Damota where he grew up. I never hunted or fished but my paternal grandfather was born and raised in Hanging Dog North Carolina in the midst of the Blue Ridge Mts. He eventually made his way to Canada to homestead. But mountain love is in my DNA! May you both have a very Merry
Christmas
Sandy Fuller
Very nice, Barb. Reminds me of my own Dad, and favorite Uncle, who both
tied their own flies and created lures. Merry Christmas to you and Dave.
Sandy
Ellen Bernheim
Happy Holidays to you and your family,all is well with me and my sons
Rick lives his wife on Seattle and Jonathan lives in Costa Rico where is is busy opening a restaurant. I decided to move to Costa Rico for at least 4 months and possibly make it my home and only come back to the States 4 or 5 times a year to visit friends and my Doctors and Dentist for periodic check ups.I always enjoy your stories and I’m
So happy to hear you are all doing well
Wishing you all Happy Holidays and a healthy New Year.
Love cousin Ellen
Marilyn Campbell
We all need stories like yours at this time of the year. Thank you for sharing,
Barbra, and I hope you and your family have a nice Christmas.
Marilyn
Marilyn Campbell
We all need stories like yours at this time of the year. Thank you for sharing,
Barbra, and I hope you and your family have a nice Christmas.